Sexual Problems

A sexual problem, sometimes called a sexual dysfunction, is a problem during any phase of the sexual sexual act (such as desire, arousal or orgasm). Although many people experience trouble with sex at some point, it is a topic that many people are hesitant to discuss. There are a number of specific sexual disorders, including sexual desire disorders (low libido), sexual arousal disorders (inability to become aroused – erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness, for example), orgasm disorders (delay or non-appearance of orgasms) and sexual pain disorders (painful intercourse, most commonly affecting women). A sexual problem can occur suddenly or develop slowly, over an extended period of time. The reasons for sexual problems can widely vary but may include factors such as fluctuating hormones, aging, stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, diet, medications, illness or past sexual trauma. If you are dealing with sexual problems, a qualified professional therapist can help you identify the cause and help you develop ways to cope. Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s sexual problems experts today.

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I treat female issues ranging from vaginismus to low libido to menopause-related symptoms, and male issues such as delayed ejaculation and inability to achieve erection. I also teach my clients the sexual health model so they have language for sex and an understanding that regardless of gender, sexuality, and desired sexual behavior, as long as nobody is hurt and everyone gives consent, there is a very wide range of sexual health.

— Brandie Sellers, Licensed Professional Counselor in Timnath, CO

I am currently obtaining my sex therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance (www.sexualhealthalliance.com), an AASECT-approved education program. I am a "sex-positive" therapist which means that I do not shame clients for ANY sexual issue they want to discuss.Contrary to what some believe, there’s nothing strange, deviant, or kinky about seeing a sex therapist. The bottom line is that people experience sexual problems and need a professional who specializes in that type of therapy.

— Darrin Pfannenstiel, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in Dallas, TX
 

Sexuality, desire, libido, and fantasy are all a natural and beautiful expression of being human, yet it can be difficult to navigate your own inner sexual terrain when you're afraid of judgment or shame. I offer a safe space where you can explore and heal any blockages to a vibrantly healthy sex life.

— Grace Willow, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in Austin, TX

I have specialized training in working with sexual health issues, specifically focusing out of control sexual behaviors and the impact of trauma on sexual functioning.

— Crystal Nesfield, Counselor in Phoenix, AZ
 

As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I work with a wide variety of sexual health concerns. If you are experiencing physical pain or challenging emotions, or have the desire for your relationships and your sexuality to feel different or better, we can do great work together to help.

— Laura Federico, Clinical Social Worker in Brooklyn, NY

As a sex therapist, I can help with issues related to gender identity and expression and sexual orientation and expression. I am sex positive and kink affirming. I stand with people in the sexual/gender minorities and advocate for recognition, respect, rights, and safety.

— Rick Isenberg, Licensed Professional Counselor in Ridgway, CO
 

On the spectrum of sexual concerns, I work with all parts: compulsive sexual behavior, a need for more intimacy, and aversion. I help clients understand their relationship with sex and create a healthy relationship with it that is aligned with their values.

— Stevie Hall, Licensed Professional Counselor in Dallas, TX

I am to provide a safe and non-judgmental environment for individuals and couples to discuss their concerns openly. I work collaboratively with clients to identify the physical, psychological, and relational factors contributing to sexual issues. Through communication exercises, education, and personalized strategies, I help clients develop healthier attitudes towards sex, overcome performance anxiety, and improve sexual communication.

— Katy London, Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate in Lakewood, CO
 

I support clients healing from sexual abuse, sexual assault, purity culture, and compulsory heterosexuality. I help clients work through their history, process any relevant traumas and core beliefs, and work toward sexual liberation and authenticity.

— Kirsten Cannon, Counselor in Memphis, TN

Sex is supposed to be this amazing thing filled with fun, love, thrill, excitement that comes so natural to you. Yet is has become a chore, a reward/punishment game where you are treated like the Pavlov dog when the bell rings. Maybe you never enjoyed it in the first place and you hate your body or it just hurts. Maybe you use it compulsively to fill that void, you can't get enough yet the void gets bigger. I work with performance anxiety, desire discrepancy, out of control sexual behavior.

— Ioana Avery, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Katy, TX
 

Our therapists are trained in sex therapy techniques that allow you to feel greater emotional intimacy and improve your physical connection. We treat a variety of sexual concerns in talk therapy, including desire discrepancy between partners, struggles with sexual desire, and more specific sexual issues.

— Heart of the Matter Couples Therapy, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Fort Collins, CO

I work with individuals and couples who experience erection and/or orgasm difficulties, sexual pain, anxiety towards human connection and touch, desire discrepancies, and sexual identity. What are your goals for your sex life?

— Cassandra Hesse, Counselor in Austin, TX
 

Struggles with sexual desire, pleasure, or functioning, often stem from some combination of traumatic life events, health, relational issues, or life transitions. Sex therapy works to remove blocks in intimate connection in a supportive and non-judgement environment. Together discussion, guided exercises, and various homework assignments, we work to help you find your own erotic pathway towards connection, pleasure and satisfaction.

— Joseph Winn, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Concord, MA

As a sex therapist, most of my professional work has been centered around helping folks navigate sexual issues. I use a sex-positive lens in working with sexual concerns. I will help you develop awareness of emotional and sociocultural factors that impact your sexuality, while also giving you practical tools that can create shifts in your sex life.

— Taylor Kravitz, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Portland, OR
 

I work with individuals and couples to address issues such as performance anxiety, erectile issues, painful sex, mismatched libidos/desire discrepancy, body image, sexual exploration, kink/BDSM, and more.

— JP Gaylor, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in Seattle, WA

I am working towards my certification in sex therapy including supporting clients in exploring low libido, desire discrepancy, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, kinks, fetish, healing from past sexual abuse to have a great and meaningful sexual life.

— Julie Williams, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CA
 

Working in therapy to understand and address the many sources that influence your sexuality, eroticism, and desire helps to untangle unhelpful narratives about sex. This results in improved feelings and attitudes toward sex and your body. I also work with you to align your actions with your values so you can stop the cycle of shame and guilt from unfulfilling behaviors.

— Eric van der Voort, Sex Therapist in San Diego, CA